It’s Time to Love Yourself Like
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Our Self-Esteem Therapists Can Help.
Self-Esteem Therapy in California + Online
Living with low self-esteem can feel like being trapped in an endless cycle of self-doubt, self-sabotage, and negative self-talk. No matter what you achieve or how hard you try, that inner critic just won't quit. You might be wondering if it will always feel this hard to love yourself…
The truth is: Low self-esteem isn't a ‘mindset problem’ to solve—it's often the result of stressful or traumatic experiences that taught you to question your worth.
These patterns get stored in your nervous system and show up as self-criticism, perfectionism, and that persistent feeling of not being good enough.
I want you to know: Your struggle is real. It makes sense, given everything you’ve been through in your life. And while positive affirmations and self-help books might offer temporary relief, true self-love emerges when you learn how to heal these deep patterns of unworthiness at their root. It is possible to transform self-doubt into genuine self-acceptance and love. Our therapists can help.
Click below to book a free consultation call to get started!
"When you say ‘yes’ to others, make sure you are not saying ‘no’ to yourself." – Paulo Coelho
A relentless inner critic
Constant self-doubt
Feeling undeserving of good things
Never feeling "good enough"
Symptoms + Signs of Low Self-Esteem
Exhausting perfectionism
Difficulty accepting compliments
Fear of failure holding you back
Comparing yourself to others
People-pleasing tendencies
Difficulty setting boundaries
Feeling disconnected from your intuition and highest self
Success feels uncomfortable or scary
Common Types of Low Self-Esteem
Imposter Syndrome
A persistent feeling that your achievements are fraudulent or undeserved. You might experience constant self-doubt about your abilities, fear of being "found out," or struggle to enjoy your own success, chalking it up to ‘luck’ rather than effort.
Fear of Being Seen
Holding yourself back from authentic self-expression due to fear of judgment or rejection. This might show up as playing small, hiding your gifts, or avoiding visibility in work and life.
Unhealthy Relationship Patterns
Finding yourself in unfulfilling relationships or struggling to maintain healthy boundaries. You might notice yourself people-pleasing, seeking approval, or having difficulty trusting your judgment in relationships.
Lack of Connection to Your Intuition
Struggling to trust your inner knowing or constantly second-guessing your decisions. You might find yourself seeking others' opinions rather than trusting your own inner wisdom.
Benefits of Self-Esteem Therapy
When you work with one of our self-esteem therapists, we can help you:
Tame your inner critic
Learn to trust your decisions and inner knowing
Create boundaries that feel authentic and clear
Embrace success + release perfectionism
Cultivate satisfying relationships
Get to know and love your self
Move from self-criticism to self-compassion
Express yourself without fear of judgment
Experience more joy and ease in life, work and relationships
Navigate your life with confidence and compassion
Access your natural creativity
Reconnect with your intuition
Types of Therapy We Offer:
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for Self-Esteem
Learn to identify and shift the thought patterns that keep you stuck in self-doubt. CBT provides practical tools for challenging your inner critic, rewiring old beliefs about your worth, and developing genuine self-love. -
Holistic Therapy for Self-Esteem
Address self-esteem through the lens of mind, body, and spirit connection. This integrative approach combines evidence-based techniques with mindfulness practices to support decreasing self-criticism and increasing self-love. -
Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) for Self-Esteem
Work with different parts of yourself to understand and heal the root causes of low self-esteem. IFS helps you transform your relationship with your inner critic while reconnecting with your authentic, confident Self. -
Mindfulness Therapy for Self-Esteem
Learn to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment, creating space between you and your inner critic. This approach helps you develop self-acceptance and self-compassion as foundations for lasting confidence.
Self-esteem therapy is designed to help you heal the root causes of self-doubt, not just manage negative thinking. While sessions flow like traditional talk therapy, we weave in mindfulness practices, somatic awareness, and practical tools you can start using right away to feel better between sessions. When you work with one of our self-esteem therapists, you'll learn why these patterns of self-criticism developed, how they show up in your life now, and most importantly, how to transform them into genuine self-love.
What is Self-Esteem Therapy?
Here at The Holistic Counseling Center, we believe that true confidence requires working with the mind, body, heart and spirit. Our approach to helping you rebuild your self-esteem goes beyond teaching you the power of positive thinking or simple behavioral change—we help you unearth and transform the deep patterns that are keeping you stuck.
What makes our approach different:
We integrate nervous system healing with traditional therapy techniques
Every therapist is trained in both evidence-based and holistic modalities
We understand how self-esteem impacts the mind-body-spirit connection
Our approach is gentle, intuitive, and solution-focused
We honor both modern psychology and spiritual wisdom traditions
We focus on deep healing, not just managing symptoms
Our self-esteem therapists are here to support you on your healing journey. We're dedicated to creating a warm and supportive environment for this important work, whether you join us in person in El Dorado Hills (near Folsom and Sacramento), San Francisco, or work with us online.
Self-Esteem Therapy at The Holistic Counseling Center
Hi, I’m Kim Burris
Founder of The Holistic Counseling Center and A Licensed Therapist
I believe that learning how to love yourself is foundational for a fulfilling life.
When you doubt yourself, question your worth, and abandon your own needs, you suffer. I founded The Holistic Counseling Center because I am passionate about helping people just like you heal your relationship with yourself. I understand that true self-esteem arises when you learn to integrate, heal, and honor yourself—mind, body, heart and spirit.
I know how transformative therapy can be when it addresses the root causes of self-esteem struggles, and I'm dedicated to providing holistic therapy that creates lasting change. Here at The Holistic Counseling Center, we offer self-esteem therapy that goes beyond just managing your symptoms to help you develop genuine, unshakeable self-love.
If you're ready to begin this journey of coming home to yourself, we’d love to help!
Meet Our Therapists
Kim Burris
MA, LMFT, Founder
Anxiety, Postpartum Depression, Shadow Work, Self-Esteem + Conscious Evolution
Dr. Susan Pomeranz
Ph.D, LMFT
Anxiety, Stress/Burnout, Life Transitions, Self-Esteem, Couples + Spirituality
Perri Griffin
MA, LMFT
Anxiety, Self-Esteem, Shadow Work, Postpartum,
Existential Crisis, Life Purpose + Spirituality
Clara Stewart
MA, LMFT
Anxiety, Self-Esteem, Relationships, Shadow Work, Complex Trauma, Moms, Teens and Couples
MA, AMFT
Sinclair Mitchell
Anxiety, Trauma, Self-Esteem, Spirituality, Moms, Teens, and Couples
Tessa Wendell
MA, AMFT
Anxiety, Trauma, Relationships, Self-Esteem, Moms, Teens and Couples
Our Offices
We offer in-person therapy from our offices in El Dorado Hills, CA (near Folsom and Sacramento), San Francisco and online in California.
What People are Saying
★★★★★
The Holistic Counseling Center is so aptly named as they are holistic, heart-centered, and provide counseling with a specialization on a wide range of issues we face in a modern world. As an energy healer and life coach, I realize the value of integrated therapy that sees the whole person including their spiritual aspects. I got a chance to get to know each practitioner when I came to teach Reiki to the center and they each seemed compassionate, dedicated to honing their skills, and helping people heal. I would recommend this center for anyone looking for guidance! And their offices are so welcoming beautiful.
- Song, Sacramento, CA
Ready to Work Together?
Here’s how to get started:
Additional Resources
Are you longing to love yourself more?
Download: How to Love Yourself More:
A Guide to Self-Love From a Holistic Therapist
Dive Deeper: Articles Exploring Self-Esteem
FAQ’s about Self-Esteem Therapy
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Yes! Therapy can help you explore your life experiences and change your relationship with yourself. While self-help books and positive affirmations might offer temporary relief, therapy helps you understand and transform the root causes of low self-esteem. Through holistic therapy, you'll learn to develop genuine self-worth that comes from within, rather than constantly seeking external validation.
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If you find yourself constantly second-guessing your decisions, feeling unworthy despite your achievements, or struggling with persistent self-doubt, therapy can help. Other signs include perfectionism, difficulty setting boundaries, people-pleasing tendencies, or feeling like you're somehow fundamentally flawed.
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Sessions combine traditional talk therapy with holistic approaches that honor the mind-body connection, like mindfulness practices, energy work, and visualizations, just to name a few. You'll work with your therapist to understand the origins of your self-esteem struggles, explore how they show up in your life now, and develop practical tools for transformation. We offer tools like grounding meditations, nervous system regulation and mindfulness to help you build confidence from the inside out.
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While some people notice meaningful changes within a few months, developing lasting self-worth typically takes time. We generally recommend committing to at least 6 months of regular sessions to create sustainable change. Your therapist will work with you to develop a treatment plan that honors your unique needs and circumstances.
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Yes, low self-esteem often intertwines with anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges. Our holistic approach addresses these interconnected patterns, helping you develop greater emotional resilience and overall well-being. Many clients find that as their relationship with themselves improves, other areas of their lives naturally begin to shift as well.
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Finding the right therapist is about more than just matching specialties—it's about finding someone who truly understands your journey. At The Holistic Counseling Center, we carefully match you with a therapist based on:
Their specialized training in self-esteem work
Their therapeutic style and approach
Their personality and way of working
Your specific needs and goals
Your personal history and life experiences
All our therapists are licensed mental health professionals with advanced training in both evidence-based and holistic approaches. We understand how important the therapeutic relationship is for this deep work. If you ever feel your therapist isn't the best match, we'll help connect you with another therapist on our team who might be a better fit.
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Taking the first step toward healing can feel overwhelming, but we've made the process simple and supportive. Here's how to begin your healing journey:
1. Schedule a Free Consultation Call
Book a complimentary 15-minute consultation call with our team. During this call, we'll:Listen to what's bringing you to therapy
Answer any questions you have about our approach
Discuss which of our therapists might be the best fit
Review practical details like fees, insurance, and scheduling
2. Your First Session
If it feels like a good fit, we'll schedule your first therapy session. Your initial session is an opportunity to:Share your story in a safe, non-judgmental space
Explore what’s possible in therapy, and set some goals
Learn what tools you can start using to support your mind, body, heart and spirit
Create a personalized treatment plan that honors your unique struggles, goals and personality
3. Moving Forward
After your first session, we'll establish a regular therapy schedule that works for you. While weekly sessions are recommended initially to help establish safety and momentum in your healing journey, we understand that everyone's circumstances are different and will work with you to find a rhythm that feels supportive and sustainable.Ready to begin?
You can schedule your free consultation call by:Calling or texting us at 916.467.9539
Emailing us at admin@theholisticcounseling.center
We know reaching out for support takes courage, especially when you're dealing with low self-esteem. We're honored to be part of your healing journey.
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We offer self-esteem therapy anywhere we can legally and ethically provide therapy, which varies depending on your location. If therapy isn’t available in your state, holistic coaching may be an option for support.
If you live in one of the following locations, we can provide therapy:
California:
El Dorado Hills Sacramento
Folsom
San Francisco
Santa CruzColorado
Alabama
Arizona
Florida
Missouri
Utah
Idaho
Washington
Pennsylvania
If you have questions about availability in your state, feel free to text or schedule a free consultation call to learn more.
Make an Appointment With a Self-Esteem Therapist Near You
Curious about a holistic approach to Self-Esteem Therapy and how our therapists can support you? Let’s chat! Just click below to schedule your complimentary consultation call and our intake coordinator will reach out to discuss logistics and schedule your first appointment.
If you have any other questions feel free to send a message through this contact form and we’ll get back to you in the next 48 hours.
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